Different Ways to Approach Women

The collision approach:

This approach is rather simple, you just see a woman that interests you and you then just accidentally get in her way so she has to come to a halt. That bit is easy but it is the opening comment you use that will keep her interested. After you have made the target come to a halt, she will most probably say ''excuse me'' or ''sorry'', a good reply to use to this is ''Oh, that's alright, you would have stopped me in my tracks even if you were not blocking my way''. Hopefully this comment will get a laugh (if not just move on, there's no point if she doesn't have a sense of humour. If she does laugh a good follow up line which is bound to be a success and get her extremely interested in you is ''I'm glad you laughed, because it shows you have a good sense of humour and I wanted to see if you were more than just looks''.

Pretend to be an artist approach:

This approach requires some props but is worth it. To start off with you need to catch the eye of the person you want to approach and as soon as the eye contact is made, make a big deal out of sketching her. Make it seem as if you are really good and a professional artist, furrow your brow and look as if you are in deep concentration.

What you will actually draw is a simple stick man figure that anyone could draw, then label it appropriately such as ''beautiful women'', this approach can also be used when she is with a group of friends, in this case draw her friends as smaller figures next to her and label it ''beautiful women at dinner with friends''. Sign the drawing and then fold it in two.

After this point you will need to walk up to the table with her (and her friends if they are there) and say ''excuse me...but your beauty inspired me to draw such high art'', then hand her the folded piece of paper. There are then two ways you can go about this you can stand there waiting for her reaction, or more effectively you can return to your seat, and when you reach there she should have opened it and started laughing. If she is some-one with a sense of humour she will signal for you to return and will probably play along with your ''high art''.

The mobile phone approach:

If you are sitting next to some-one on a train or something and you need a way to get into conversation, get you mobile out and pretend to have a short phone call, then hang up and comment on it to the girl next to you. The brilliant thing about this approach is that you get to choose any topic of your choice (just make sure it is a good one). Also if using this approach make sure you don't get some one ringing you when you are already pretending to be on the phone.

''You look stunning'' approach:

It may seem an obvious and ineffective approach but if used correctly it can be very successful. To start this approach what you need to do is make sure she is paying attention to you, to do this all you need to say is ''excuse me'' or ''Pardon my intrusion'' (this interrupts her train of thought and she focuses on you to see why you are interrupting her). After you have interrupted her train of thought just say ''I just wanted to tell you...I think your absolutely stunning...and I really want get to know you better''.

This method may not always work, as some women will see it as an obvious come-on, the really stunning women like models are told they are stunning everyday so this approach is probably useless on them.

Buying her a drink approach:

Surprisingly this approach you do not want to do, don't offer to buy her a drink and don't agree to her demands. The reason you should not buy her a drink is because it makes you seem like a weak male, it does not give off this alpha-male presence that attracts women. After you have built up a strong rapport and you can see she is defiantly interested in you then it is acceptable to buy her a drink. Otherwise buying her a drink will give off this nice guy image, which unfortunately rarely works.