Touching and Kino

As we highlighted early ''kinesthetic approaching'' or simply ''kino'' is a powerful non-verbal means of communication. Psychological studies have shown that the use of touching (casually), during a conversation, highlights the conversation more vividly in their mind and they will remember it more fondly.

The key to touching is to make it seem natural, as if you do it with everyone you meet. The types of touching include hugging, touching her hand now and again and make sure you do it in a non-threatening way. With this method you need to start it off early in the friend relationship, in order for it to seem natural.

What you need to do is any time you meet a girl your interested in, is just touch her. It doesn't matter if you've just met her (although you will needed to have started a conversation otherwise they will think you're a pervert) hold her hand, rub her arm, her back her elbow, and touch her hair and face just touch her.

After this stage the thing to do is to SEE HOW SHE RESPONDS TO YOUR TOUCHING!!!! If she didn't seem offended by your touching - this is your key to start a more emotional and deeper conversation. If her body seems to respond well to non-sexual touching move on to sexual. Some women find touching of the primary erogenous zones as very intimate and sexual. Places like her palms, the inside of her elbows, her ear lobes, cheeks and her hips. The final point is to make sure you pay attention to how she responds, you need to know if she likes it or doesn't and if she doesn't this is your cue that she is not interested and that you should move on.

You need to act and do the things people in a relationship would do, gently stroke her cheek pretending to wipe off an eyelash or brush of 'something' stuck in her hair. The type of actions lovers will do, this technique will make her feel close and respond warmly to you.

An effective method to get simple Kino is to pretend you did not hear what she has said. When she says something, pretend you didn't hear then lean forward and touch her arm and back, then lean back out again and respond with an answer. As a general rule - the right time to use Kino is anytime you can.