Mindsets, beliefs and attitudes

From flaws to strengths:

In order for you to adopt these concepts you need to learn the technique of reframing. Reframing is easy, basically you take every negative belief you have about yourself and turn it into a confident one.

This is how you do reframing, take a belief you have about yourself that is negative like say if you had a high pitched voice, then turn it around so it becomes ''how can my voice set me apart from other guys?'' or ''I'm too ugly'' becomes ''how can my lack of natural good looks actually help me with women?''

When you have these reframed questions your mind will come up with answers. For example it may be to your advantage for not having pretty boy looks because women expect good-looking guys to approach, so when you display this confidence when talking to them, their guard will be down.

Bad boys vs. Nice guys:

Despite what many people think, women don't go for nice guys. People wonder why the bad boy always wins, and the reason is because women can 'project their guilty lust and sexual feelings' on bad boys without any fear or 'guilt'. Women are attracted to bad boys because they don't see themselves spending the rest of their lives together; they know it will be passionate, guiltless and fun.

This doesn't mean you have to be a jerk and break the law to get the girls you want. Below is a simple experiment you should undertake to see the difference between being nice and bad.

Do each part to 5 different girls who you are interested in.

For the first part of the experiment you need to:
Smile all the time
Be nice and friendly, use no sarcasm and don't tease her.
Give her lots of compliments. Tell her she looks nice.
(This bit is optional) politely ask, ''You probably have a boyfriend right? If not can I take you out sometime''.

Second part you need to act like this to the 5 women:
Don't smile very often
Act really comfortably around her, like you've know her for 10 years. Tease her; especially about things know one else would usually do, like her clothes.
Pretend she's interested in you and is pursuing you and that you are resisting her.
Don't give her any compliments and if she gives you any turn it around pretending she is picking you up by saying ''That's a bit of a cheesy pick-up line, can't you think of something more original?''
(Optional) Say, ''Hey do you have a phone, good, write your number down here.''

Confidence and leadership:

Inner game is based around your confidence, beliefs and your overall attitude towards life. You may not realize it but your attitude is constantly projected to any one you speak to. By having a strong, assertive and positive attitude women will be more attracted to you.

If you can develop these 3 aspects (confidence, belief and positive attitude) then your success with woman will increase.

Being the center of attention:

Fame is a major attraction for both men and women. Men are attracted to the famous beautiful people, they are famous because of their looks so you know you have got a woman everyone else dreams of. Women on the other hand are attracted to the social status and power that being a celebrity brings. Skipping lines, free tickets they love it, no matter how unattractive you are.

This doesn't mean you have to be famous to be a pick up artist, but there are certain things you can do, which give off the persona that you are famous or well known around your area. It's all about relaxed confidence, being comfortable wherever you go, like everywhere is normal to you.

There are also other things you can do externally, which will benefit you. Get friendly with the doorman, at least on name terms, even get to the point where at some clubs they will let you walk through. It may sound hard to do but all it takes is being friendly to the right people.

Request songs from the DJ, get friendly with waiters at busy restaurants so you can get a table there any time you want. When in a circle show control, make sure your opinion is put across and people listen to you.

Power:

Women find power a massive aphrodisiac, in today's society having a sports car and loads of money is seen as power. That is why rich men, always seem to have beautiful wives. Power gives women this sense of security.

As soon as you initiate a connection you have to exert power, you do this with strong eye contact, straight posture, strong tonality and the way you move. Act as if you are in control. When a girl realizes she has more power over you, your chances are ruined.

Girls obsess over power because of the sense of security it gives them; they feel safe and protected with someone who has power. Recent studies have shown that orgasms take place in the brain for women, and for them to feel an orgasm they need to let go of any fear and anxiety. Feeling safe and protected by power enables them to lose the fear and anxiety.