What Women Want

Before you need to know your inner game, it is useful to know the mind of a woman (not entirely though, some things man will never know).

What single women hate:

Giving up your status in exchange for her approval and attention. This is one of the main things that will destroy a man's chances. By giving your status away you give off this weak, tentative persona which women DON'T LIKE. Effectively you are giving away your control, letting her call all the shots and becoming her very own hand puppet.

Being clingy, needy and insecure. These traits are not attractive and show a woman that you will not be a good partner. These again give off a weak persona but also give off this creepy feeling, the need to keep on being told you are a nice or interesting person will become annoying. You need to give off this strong alpha-male persona, but being clingy, needy and insecure is the complete opposite and that is why it will not get you any women.

Using approval seeking, bad posture, poor body language and boring voice tones. These traits basically describe what has come to be known as the ''nice guy'', someone who will make a good friend. Your posture, voice tone, eye contact and gestures are all reasons which make a girl interested in you and if not done correctly they will instantly see you as weak.

Not understanding that she's a woman and you're a man. This may sound a bit patronizing but you'll be surprised how many men don't get it. Men and women have different natures, the ''male nature'' and the ''female nature''(obvious isn't it). Women play hard to get, they like the chase, and they are coy and love anticipation. While 'male nature' is where the men are dominant, competitive, they win things and rule their territory. It may seem like basic cave-man nature but it is what women like, it is all linked to the strong alpha-male presence.

Do women like to be hit on?

If you believe that women love to be hit on and even crave it, then you are on your way to success with the opposite sex.

Despite what many men think about women not liking being hit on, it is not true, if it were women would wear shower curtains and spend 5 minutes getting ready to go out. It is important to realise women like to be hit on as well, otherwise your mind will tell you not to speak to that woman, everyone is hitting on her, this will lead to doubt and poor confidence. Secretly women love to be hit on, it makes them feel wanted and sexy.

There is the wide going theory that women dress up for women, and although there may be an element of truth in this, the real truth is that women get dressed up to compete with the other women. They compete for male validation or for who gets hit on the most.

Four things women must have:

1. A woman needs to feel appreciated for her unique individuality. She needs to feel special and know that her man will support her in her endeavors.

2. She wants to feel that deep, emotional, intimate connection. She wants to have a connection she shares only with you.

3. She needs to feel like a woman. She needs to feel sexy, beautiful and feminine.

4. She needs to feel passionate, romantic encounters. She wants some one to take her to new levels of pleasure.